I thought I was satisfied with my JoeUser
experience. I was content with my place in the world, hovering around
the 250s. I thought it was an accomplishment only being here a couple
weeks and already being at that user rank. Then I wrote my article on
Troll
Attacks and was propelled into the 150s. Still happy. Still in my
own little "user rank" world. I even took to checking in every day to
see how I was doing,. The ranks of other users never entered my mind.
Enter Sir
Peter Maxwell and his meteoric rise to JoeUser stardom. I love
Sir Peter's blog. It's the only blog I regularly read without being
drawn in by an interesting headline. I greatly enjoy Sir Peter's
adventures and his interactions with his loyal followers. Then one
day I clicked the wrong thing and accidentally saw Sir Peter's user
ranking. (Then 44, as of this writing 24.) I immediately developed
Peter's Points Envy. ("That's right, Dr. Freud, I'm envious of
Peter's Point and I don't care what you make of it! Dirty
minded bugger.")
44? I'd been here twice as long as he had.
I take such care over my pathetic little blogs, researching.
crafting, searching Google for appropriate links.... It's not the
amount of work I'd do on a journalistic piece, but it's still not
some hastily tossed off note. And Sir Peter comes along and becomes
the darling of JoeUser. My my.
Then there's BulbousHead
who has managed to, as of this writing, achieve the rank of 56
without ever having written a blog! He has climbed to that
position based solely upon commenting on other people's blogs. He's
been here two months less than I have. Amazing. More power to you
Bulbous! ("That's right, Dr. Freud, I envy Peter's Point and a
BulbousHead. I don't like what you're implying. Do you know Marvin
Cooley by any chance?")
I don't begrudge either of them their
achievements. They are obviously doing what they are doing extremely
well. Each of them is making of JoeUser what they want of it. I'm
happy for them. I'm just suddenly miserable for myself.
I once saw the point system as a fairly
good thing. It got me in here every day, making JoeUser the
only site I visit every day. It gave me something to feel good
about, maybe even something to strive for. But now that same system
is causing me dissatisfaction. Now I look up there and see myself
heading toward the low 100s and it's still not good enough. A few
weeks ago I was content in the 250s. Now I wonder what rank, if any,
would be satisfactory.
Again, I don't begrudge the others their
success. I realize the reasons for it and why there are disparities
regardless of time spent here. I don't write very many articles. I
don't comment very often. I
don't like to be controversial. That's fine. They've made of
JoeUser what they wanted of it and I thought I was making of
it what I wanted. I accomplished that for
which I came here. So why am I so unsatisfied suddenly? Is it
that I feel I have more to contribute? I have 2 pages of unwritten
blog ideas that complications from my chronic illness have kept me
from being able to focus on and get out. Is it that I want to say
more? Is it that I want to do more? Is it that I feel like my writing
is superior to Sir Peter's and therefore deserves to be higher
somehow-- even though I know the point system is laid out to reward
quantity rather than merit? Maybe I'm frustrated that once one
ventures beyond the border of one's own blog this place begins to
look more and more like a high school popularity contest-- something
only compounded (aggravated?) by that stupid JoeUser
award.
I don't know. I've gone from thinking the
Point System was a good idea, to wondering if it's a bad idea. It's
the old conundrum, isn't it? As long as you're focused on your own
efforts and your own achievements, you can be relatively happy. Start
comparing yourself to others and dissatisfaction inevitably creeps
in. As long as my time on JoeUser is accomplishing what I wanted, I
suppose I should be content. I guess I'll try getting more articles
out-- at least till
they come to throw me and my belongings into the street. Other
than that, I can't see changing much.